We often think of service as action we take for others outside of our immediate families, but simple tasks, like feeding the dog, sweeping up and clearing the dishes – what many of us refer to as chores – are also about serving others. Rather than community members or people in need halfway across the world, kids can help by contributing to daily life in their very own homes.

Unfortunately, the word chore carries a lot of negative baggage. I know my kids groan whenever I remind them to do their chores and I wonder if it’s even worth asking them to help out. The answer to that question is “yes.” Research shows that kids who do chores are more successful, happier adults. By teaching our kids to share in everyday responsibilities, we’re helping them build the skills they need to feel a sense of responsibility in other parts of the lives.

One simple, fun way to engage children is by including them in the planning and prep of family dinner. From brainstorming about the meal to prepping and cooking to getting creative around table décor to clean up, kids actually appreciate being part of the process. Giving them responsibility lets them know their input and help is valued. They also learn that caring for one another by taking on household tasks is as important as any other service work.